Eight Tips for Single Women Who

Want an Intimate, Bonded Relationship

By Carolyn Bushong

1. Don’t have sex too soon. Make sure you take time to know each other.

2. Always tell him what you want from him and from the relationship and what you will do if you don’t get it.

3. Don’t give him the power to make you feel great about yourself. When you do, you also give him the power to make you feel bad about yourself.

4. Make it a condition of your relationship that he be as open and honest with you as you are with him. At the first indication that he is not,  stop revealing yourself.

5. Don’t give more time, energy, love, or commitment than you get.

6. Don’t make the relationship too easy for him. When you do, you are telling him that you value him more than you value yourself.

7. Start the relationship by encouraging the treatment you want and discouraging the behavior you do not want. Remember, actions speak louder than words. People infer what you want from what you accept. If you accept bad behavior, don’t be surprised when it continues.

8. Be soft yet strong; feminine but competent. Don’t hide your strengths or diminish your accomplishments. Be sure he falls in love with the real you.

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