8 Key Ingredients of Love By Carolyn Bushong 

The Eight Key Ingredients of Love 

1.                  Common relationship goals regarding the present and the future including (but not limited to) emotional intimacy, quality time together, pursuit of interests, marriage, children, social life, a home, financial security, sexual intimacy and companionship.

2.                  A Feeling of goodwill that comes from warmth and truly wanting the very best for your mate.

3.                  Excitement and interest created by bringing your separate and unique personalities to the relationship.

4.                  Freedom to be yourselves and follow your own interests resulting from both feeling secure in yourselves and the relationship.

5.                  Ability to search for and find solutions to problems because you respect each other and your differences, and seek solutions that meet both your needs.

6.                  A deep bond between you that others can’t penetrate. 7.                  Security that comes from trusting your mate and knowing that you are both equally committed to the relationship.8.                  Commitment to, and a vision of, your future together for many years to come.

About the Author:  Carolyn Bushong, a Denver, CO licensed therapist, helps couples resolve issues and helps singles with dating advice — in her office, online, and by phone.  She’s author of Loving Him Without Losing You, Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With, and The 7 Dumbest Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make.  She’s appeared on Oprah and the View.  http://www.carolynsays.com.  303-333-1888.

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